The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide to “Pleasure Tools” 💕
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Girls, tell me honestly—every time you see the words “adult toy,” do you freeze like 🤯 “uhhh… what even is that?”
Don’t panic. Think of this as chatting about makeup categories with your bestie. By the end of this, you’ll know exactly what’s what—plus some must-know beginner tips (a.k.a. how not to waste money).
🌸 Solo Play: The Classics of Self-Care
(Beginner vibrators, G-spot toys, rabbit vibrators)
Like the “classic products” in your beauty stash—you can’t go wrong.
External massagers (suction toys / licking toys / bullet vibes)
👉 As easy to use as swiping on lipstick. Newbie-friendly and zero stress.
Internal vibrators (G-spot wands)
👉 Think of them like a serum—you need the right angle and pressure to see
results.
Dual-action toys (rabbit vibes)
👉 Like a 2-in-1 blush + lipstick palette—two effects in one, double the efficiency.
🎨 Non-Vibrating Toys: Tools for the Pros
(Glass dildos, stainless steel toys, realistic dildos)
Like precision makeup brushes, these are all about technique, not electricity.
Popular materials: glass, stainless steel, or realistic dildos
Give you control over tempo and sensation
Perfect for players who want variety in texture and touch
🍑 Backdoor Toys: The Highlight Step
(Anal toys for beginners, butt plugs, prostate play)
The literal “highlighter” of your routine—just a touch and the whole look changes.
⚠️ Bestie tips:
Lube. Lube. Lube. Say it with me three times, because it’s THAT important.
Always start small. Don’t try to “go big” on day one—your booty will not thank you.
💞 Couple Toys: Relationship Power-Ups
(Remote control vibrators, wearable couple toys)
Like buying a matching couple’s set in skincare—it’s all about sharing the glow.
Remote control toys: Like sharing a Spotify playlist, but… more fun.
Wearable toys: Like matching bracelets, boosting intimacy whenever, wherever.
🔗 BDSM Accessories: The Vibe Decorators
(Bondage gear, BDSM beginner kit, kink essentials)
These are like makeup accessories—meant to set the mood, not steal the show.
Common props: blindfolds, whips, cuffs, restraints
Golden rule: safe words + consent. Hot, yes. Safe, ALWAYS.
💧 Lubes: The Unsung Heroes
(Best lubricants for beginners, water-based lube, silicone lube)
The primer of the bedroom routine—don’t skip this step!
Water-based: Fresh like a face mist, easy to clean, but needs reapplication.
Silicone-based: Long-lasting like a face oil, waterproof, but don’t mix with silicone
toys.
Hyaluronic acid formulas: Non-sticky, hydrating, and super gentle on your bits.
🌿 Intimate Care: Long-Term Wellness
(Kegel balls, pelvic floor trainers, feminine wellness)
Because it’s not just about fun—it’s about health, too.
Kegel balls / pelvic floor trainers
👉 Like your daily serum: consistent use improves tone and health over time.
🚫 Avoiding the Rookie Mistakes
(Beginner tips for sex toys, how to choose safe materials)
Bestie’s “learned the hard way” checklist:
1. Start with external toys first, then go deeper later.
2. Prioritise safe materials: medical-grade silicone / food-grade certified + CE
tested.
3. Always check lube ingredients. Skip anything with fragrance or harsh chemicals.
💬 Bestie Talk
“So tell me—what’s the FIRST type of ‘pleasure tool’ you’d pick to try? 👀”
Drop it in the comments—I need ideas to copy from you all!